Friday, August 1, 2014

How To Deal with Obnoxious People

how to deal with obnoxious people
Negative people need drama like oxygen. Stay positive, it will take their breath away.
There is a person in your college, office or family, who is always there to make things worse and leave you with disgusted feelings. Yes, I am talking about the Obnoxious man. This person holds some kind of weird powers, which make you think hell is a way better place to live than earth. But you are not alone, he is same with everyone. Every person who knows him, think about him in the same manner.

So, how to do deal with this guy i.e. the Obnoxious man? Is there any way to take him down and make him feel the pain? The answer is a big Yes, i.e., there is a way to deal with him.

Confront The Soul Sucking Demon
When I said, there is a way to deal with him, it means you need to stand up, and fight that soul sucker. This person has taken you for granted. Now, it is time for you to show him the mirror. Let him feel the pain that he causes to you.

If you are not able to take him, single handedly. Ask for help. Make sure a person who can take on his arguments is on your side. In the end, person might stop annoying you.

But it is better to confront alone, first, and take help when it doesn’t work. Because taking other person help might not go well with Obnoxious man ego, with whom, you still want to have a good relationship, i.e., what if he is your boss or professor.

Keep Calm And Ignore The Moron
If thought of confrontation make you nervous, and you believe that it will ruin your relationship, in case he is your boss or professor, then ignore that moron. Don’t engage with him in long conversations, which is going nowhere, except to the soul-sucking-bin, and when you realize that you are going to be trashed.

Now, take a deep breath and by very next moment, leave the conversation.

Learn to avoid these people. Either they will think there is a problem with you or him. In both cases, you are going to win, either they will stop talking with you or talk when they have something important to say.

Even he is the Obnoxious man, the life soul sucker. Consider him as your guru. Consider him as your first hurdle to your glory. Think in this way, if you are not able to deal with this man, how you will able to deal with others. So stand up and face him.

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